
I checked out a few more books from that bottom shelf, but around the third or fourth one, I decided they were all the same, and, anyway, I had it all figured out by now. So I quit reading and buckled down to finish writing Book #4. It was also awful.
This is about when I started thinking, Hmm, maybe I don’t know it all yet. Maybe I should keep reading those bottom-shelf books after all.
The more time we spend studying our craft and the more we learn, the easier it is to lose sight of our own fallibility.
We master a little corner of the craft and immediately start feeling like Superman, floating out there in space, complacently smiling down at the world, congratulating ourselves for saving it once again. We read a novel by another author, start picking out the mistakes (which, only a few weeks ago, we were making ourselves), and smugly pat ourselves on the backs for being experts compared to this poor fool.
The truth is we probably do know a good deal about the craft. We’ve studied, we’ve grown, maybe we’re even experts. But the moment we start thinking of ourselves as experts (explicitly or otherwise) is the moment we lose a little of our wide-open learnability. A naïve, arrogant, deep-down part of us starts to think we understand it all.
Luckily, every time I start falling into that trap, something eventually comes along that bangs me upside the head and leaves me with the star-spangled reminder, “I don’t know anything!”
We all need to experience this painful, shocking, overwhelming epiphany every now and then.
This epiphany can leave us feeling a little abashed, a little ashamed, and, ironically, more than a little exhilarated. Stone walls and iron chains fall away. New vistas explode, and unexplored horizons stretch to infinity. Blind spots flicker into view, and, even as the painful awareness of our writing weaknesses caused us to wince, we can laugh with the excitement of realizing that being able to see our problems means we’re halfway down the road to solving them.
Success, knowledge, and experience can sometimes lead us, unwittingly, to the stuffy cell of complacency. In a life—and an art—that demands openness and curiosity, this is death in a box. No matter where we are in our writing lives, no matter how many bad stories we write, no matter how many good stories we write, no matter how much we’ve learned or how much we’ve mastered—we still don’t know anything.
None of us can be experts at writing, anymore than we can be experts at life. Our journey toward mastery is a never-ending road, and the moment we start thinking we know everything, or even most of everything, is the moment we stop traveling forward. Never stop learning, never believe you’ve achieved mastery. Always remember that your next big revelation is around the corner, waiting for you so long as you keep looking for it.
Here’s to the journey. Here’s to not knowing anything. And here’s to never mastering this beautiful, crazy art of the written word.
Wordplayers, tell me your opinions! Have you ever made the mistake of assuming you had mastered an aspect of writing, only to discover you hadn’t? Tell me in the comments!
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